What is love

I've realized that love is more than that. Love has no rules or boundaries. Love has no limitations or exceptions. Love is waking up at 2AM and driving long distances to wait and welcome a friend home from war at a 9:30PM arrival. Love is offering a shoulder to cry on. Love is watching 2 seasons of House with a heartbroken friend. Love is coming home from a long day at work and cooking dinner for someone who's too sick or depressed to do it themself. Love is picking someone up off the sidewalk when pain and agony has worn them down. Love is saying "I love you" without expecting to hear it back. Love is being there for someone even when you know they can't be there for you. Love is accepting the good WITH the bad. Love is sitting and listening to someone talk about a subject you couldn't care less about and admiring their fascination and passion anyways. Love is admitting you were wrong and asking for forgiveness. Love is also forgiving. Love can be the most painful thing in the world to endure, but knowing that someone came out of it a better person because of you makes all the pain in the world worth while. Love is sticking by someone's side and baring the pain of it because you know at that moment that person needs you more than you need them. Love is not a holiday or a season or a special day out of the year. Love should be shared and shown the same every day of the year. Love has been one of the most beautiful things and one of the most painful things I've ever felt and I'm glad I've been able to feel it and see it for what it is.

Look at your hand

Look at the drawings of your hand.
You will see your life,
And tell me all you read.
I know them, I have the same.

Your life line is long and marvellous.
Your head line is magic, sensitive.
And about your heart line, I love it,
It is long and deep, your love is true.

Look at your hand, and caress my life
On your lines. I know them, we are similar.
I know your lines, I did read them on my hand.
We have the same hand, because we are in love

I think of you

Every day,
Everytime
I think of you
When I eat
I think of you
When I sleep
I dream about you
When I work
I am with you
When I close my eyes
I see you
When I walk
I am with you
When I sing
I sing for you
When I write
I think of you

When you will feel tired

When you will feel tired,
When you will search comfort
I will be there. I will tell nothing.
Close your eyes, and I appear.

When you will want to sleep,
My lap will be your pillows.
When you will want to sleep,
My songs will be your lullabies.

I will tell nothing, I will be there
To look at you sleeping,
To listen your breath
On my painful knee.

I will be always there
To smile you each morning,
To ask you if you are well
And to hear your sigh of happiness.

I will be always there for your awakening.
I will tell nothing else than
I love you again and always.
And I will let you kiss me.

An ocean is not enough..!

We are so far,
Though we are near in your feelings,
That I envy the couples I meet
When I think of you everytime
During my simple and little life of solitude.

I know You want to meet me.
I know one day you will come
By plane, by boat, by the air
With a balloon created from you.

I know you will fly across any mountains
Just to see me smiling at your feet.
I imagine the birds follow and show you
The road who conducts to my house.

But an ocean is not enough to move us away.
And I will find the secret to drain the sea,
To separate the water or to bring the continents closer,
For living with you our eternal dreams.

Thinking of you

I have just to walk in the street and I think of you.
A red light, your favorite color and you are in my mind.
A round who is not anymore, it develops into....
Now I see your heart who beats, I want to hear it.

I watch in front of me to think over and who do I see ?
We ! In the street, to a crossroad or in a square.
We are everywhere, but you are not here. I sigh of hope.
I walk with a smile, my heart is not with me but with you.

Sleeping on your knees

After watching a movie, let me always sleeping on your knees please

The night before to sleep. I like to be with you.
For just watching Television and talking.
When you want to sleep, you caress my foot.
And you kiss me to make me happy.

And the morning when I am awake.
I look at you sleeping. I love you.
I do nothing, I just admire your face.
And I kiss you to make you happy!

I need you!

I need you before I'm too old
to have and to hold,
to walk with you and watch you grow
-Your Papa

Till the end of time

So far away from you my darling
I feel weary down to my bones
I'm coming home to your good loving
And I'll never ever leave you alone

I will love you deep as the ocean
I will love you till the sun don't shine
I won't rest till your beside me
I will love you till the end of time

I left my home to seek my fortune
I left you standing in the pouring rain
And now I'm lost so tired and lonely
I'm just trying to find a way to get back home..

I will love you deep as the ocean
I will love you till the sun don't shine
I won't rest till your beside me
I will love you till the end of time

Till the end of time.....

By Whitesnake/David Coverdale.

Stop worrying!

Undoing the Worrying Habit

Once acquired, the habit of worrying seems hard to stop. We're raised to worry and aren't considered "grown up" until we perfect the art. Teenagers are told: "you'd better start worrying about your future". If your worries aren't at least as frequent as your bowel movements, you're seen as irresponsible, childish, aimless. That's a "responsible adult" game rule.

Strange as it may seem, you want what you worry about. Or at least that's what you inadvertently tell your brain when you worry. On one level, your brain can't process "negatives". If you tell it: "don't think about crashing the car", it can't help being "attracted" to the thought/image of crashing.

Consciously, worrying is about preventing/resisting/avoiding X. Subconsciously, it's a reinforcement of wanting X (at least to the extent of wanting the experience of X in your mind). Consciously, you're pressing on the brake; subconsciously you're pressing on the accelerator.

The difficulty is that your "feet" (to continue with the analogy) are tied together. So, to stop accelerating, you must also lift your foot from the brake. But you refuse to do this (which might be sensible in a car; but your brain isn't a car).

You somehow have to persuade (or con) your brain into thinking it's safe to lift both feet from the worry pedals. For serious anxiety disorders, phobias, etc, many people go into therapy. The end result, if successful, is equivalent to learning to lift both feet (ie to "let go" of the worry/fear).

For relatively "minor" worry problems, you can use psychological gimmicks to "con" your brain into letting go of the worry – eg the worry postponement and "focused punishment" techniques described above (both have the effect of getting you to "lift both feet" from the accelerator-brake).

Life is too short

Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it'd be easy, they just promised it would be worth it

Funny

Cute

I closed my eyes

Creativity

Very cute!

What i see now..

Thinking&Thinking

Just sitting here and thinking,
Thinking my thoughts of you
Dreaming of how things would be
If you were right here too

I hope that things are going
they way that is planned
i only wish that you were here
And i could hold your hand

I dream of being with you
of being your side
of waking up besides you
of love that we don't hide

I hope soon that you'll be more
than a dream at night
that i can bring you happiness
and love with all my might

But until then, i'm here alone
there's nothing else to do
than dream of you and count the days
until you are with me here

Difference between loneliness & solitude

It's my start to the blogging world. Wish me good luck, guys!

As my present status is 'Solitude', i should start writing something about it first.

I love solitude. Even in my early childhood I liked to go off into another room away from my family and just be alone. I used to play alone with my 'magnet' pieces and so many other stuffs. I used to have many types of stones (which i get from my garden), seeds of tamarind etc. I play by myself with those 'precious' items.

I am sure if we are honest (if only to ourselves) there isn’t one of us, at some stage or other in our life, who hasn’t felt lonely. It is just that most of us don’t admit it. There seems to be a stigma attached to such an admission. It is as if to admit you are lonely is to admit that no-one wants your company, which is as good as saying you’re not likeable. No one wants to admit to that. It’s strange really, since when did being popular guarantee someone is a nice person?!!

Loneliness can be caused by the isolation or due to illness or disability, shyness, moving to a new area, starting a new job, losing someone close to you, feeling rejected, believing no-one cares, lacking social support - and a plethora of other reasons. Loneliness can occur even when you do have family and friends.

Now, what's the difference between loneliness and solitude? Solitude is usually self imposed, positive or constructive. Writers constantly seeks solitude. Sometimes, we like to have time and space to think uninterrupted by anyone or anything.

So can we move from loneliness to solitude? Is it just a state of mind? It is partly a state of mind - although it feels very real. I believe the way forward is to put meaningful things in your life. That sounds trite and simple - but it’s true. Do something for others - especially those who are needy. Whatever, make it something that will bring you into contact with other people who will appreciate and value your gift of time to them. Contact with people who value you cannot be under estimated. Loneliness often goes hand in hand with, or even creates, low self esteem. Build on that feeling of being valued and wanted, by setting yourself challenges week by week to increase your social support circle.